Thursday, June 24, 2010
“We all need a center. For some it is having a partner who is willing to discipline you and be your anchor. For others like me, it is being that anchor. It is being needed in that special way and being able to show the person I love in the most direct way possible – I am here, it is OK and I am not going to let you fall. ” - LAR
“This means so much to me. It means more to me than I know how to articulate, that you're, in a sense, giving me my freedom and my dignity back. Do you remember when you told me that I made you feel like a real woman, that no one else ever has? Well, you make me feel like a real man... and just so you know... no one else ever has. ... I'm just head over heels crazy about you... There are not enough adjectives in Webster's to describe my feelings for you.” - Ken
“For a man, romantic love is worship. He doesn't want to do great things with a woman, he wants to do them for her.” - Irma Kurtz: Malespeak
“It's like this, guys: take your woman in hand and you'll never have to do without sex again. Headaches and “not tonight, I'm too tired” indifference will give way to the ache of desire – hers, for you. Women love it.” - DG
I made a personal decision to just go ahead and be submissive. [...] It was freeing and peaceful to just let go and trust him. [My husband] pointed out [that] he's dominant and I'm submissive... (I cook his favourites; I perform any small errands he needs me to do; I rarely, if ever, deny him sex, etc.) And he went on to describe our marriage as a ship: he's the captain and I'm first mate... And if the first mate doesn't carry out the orders of the captain then it's hard to keep the ship sailing. Similarly, if the captain doesn't listen to the first mate about the situations on the ship, he can't issue any orders effectively.” - Bonnie
“[I]n these politically-correct times where most women would not dare to admit openly – even to their close female friends – that they enjoy being dominated – heterosexual women who do enjoy being dominated are intimidated into silence.” - Angry Harry: Intercourse
“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling – all that I am capable of doing – but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” - Anaïs Nin: Incest
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